{"id":5261,"date":"2020-08-08T14:34:17","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T21:34:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.caitlinhicks.com\/wordpress\/?p=5261"},"modified":"2025-04-22T19:20:50","modified_gmt":"2025-04-23T02:20:50","slug":"one-mans-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/caitlinhicks.com\/wordpress\/one-mans-family\/","title":{"rendered":"One Man&#8217;s Family"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Backstory for the novel <a href=\"https:\/\/caitlinhicks.com\/wordpress\/theory-expanded-love-hilarious-beguiling-bravely-truthful\/\">A THEORY OF EXPANDED LOVE.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>&#8216;Daddy in our midst so tiny, his small frame lost in billowing clothes and an oversized hat, a hunched-over reminder of our own mortality . . .<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The patriarch of an enormous Catholic family turns 88 with children &amp; grandchildren celebrating him. Details of a family still intact just prior to the family&#8217;s demise are captured through the lens of one child, returning after years of absence.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>&#8220;And yet, everything still in its place. . . details long ago forgotten but instantly remembered around every turn . . .\u00a0Here, as long as the rules were obeyed, the world was kept at bay. &#8216;Say grace<\/strong><strong>, stack the dishes, don&#8217;t forget to say &#8216;Eternal Rest&#8217;.<\/strong><\/em> <em><strong>As if we were still children, as if we, too, were safe from life&#8217;s inevitability .<\/strong> . .&#8217;<\/em>\u00a0 A moment in the delicious, sad remembrance of an achingly familiar scene just months before irrevocable change.<\/p>\n<p>Previously published in HERIZONS, in 1999 under the title: One Man&#8217;s Family.<\/p>\n<p><iframe style=\"border: none;\" src=\"\/\/html5-player.libsyn.com\/embed\/episode\/id\/15535316\/height\/90\/theme\/custom\/thumbnail\/yes\/direction\/backward\/render-playlist\/no\/custom-color\/3a9ba9\/\" width=\"100%\" height=\"90\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>A THEORY OF EXPANDED LOVE is the fictionalized story of an enormous family of Catholics in Pasadena, in 1963. Here are some early\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/caitlinhicks.com\/wordpress\/reviews-for-a-theory-of-expanded-love\/\">reviews: of this popular book<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Buy the book from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/s?k=A+Theory+of+Expanded+Love&amp;i=stripbooks-intl-ship&amp;crid=3VQ6SXTCG3I7P&amp;sprefix=a+theory+of+expanded+love%2Cstripbooks-intl-ship%2C152&amp;ref=nb_sb_noss\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Amazon HERE<\/a>, or from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sunburypress.com\/collections\/historical\/products\/a-theory-of-expanded-love?variant=40985249775709\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Sunbury Press HERE<\/a>. Get the <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.chirpbooks.com\/audiobooks\/a-theory-of-expanded-love-by-caitlin-hicks?\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Audiobook version HERE<\/a> <\/strong>from Chirpbooks.<\/h3>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Back to:<\/h3>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/caitlinhicks.com\/wordpress\/podcast\/\">ALL MY PODCASTS PAGE\u00a0<\/a><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Backstory for the novel A THEORY OF EXPANDED LOVE. &#8216;Daddy in our midst so tiny, his small frame lost in billowing clothes and an oversized hat, a hunched-over reminder of our own mortality . . . The patriarch of an enormous Catholic family turns 88 with children &amp; grandchildren celebrating him. 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